Top 5 Most Important Things to Consider When Getting Engaged and Booking Your Wedding
Getting engaged is an exciting and unforgettable milestone in your life. However, once the glow of saying "yes" settles in, many couples find themselves wondering, "Where do we start?" Planning your wedding is a journey that should be as joyful as it is.
To help you along the way, I’ve put together the top five things to consider when getting engaged and booking your wedding.
1. Set a Realistic Budget
Your wedding budget is the foundation for all your planning decisions. Before you start booking venues or vendors, sit down with your partner and decide how much you’re comfortable spending. Consider:
What aspects of the wedding are most important to you (e.g., venue, photography, catering)?
Will family contribute to the budget? If so, have clear and open discussions about expectations.
A well-planned budget will help you prioritize and avoid financial stress later.
2. Choose a Date and Venue Early
Popular venues and dates can book out over a year in advance, especially during peak wedding seasons. When deciding on your wedding date and venue, think about:
The season and how it may impact your theme, attire, and guest comfort.
Whether you want an indoor or outdoor ceremony.
Guest count, as it will directly impact venue capacity.
Once you’ve locked in your venue and date, you can build the rest of your wedding plans around them.
3. Find Your Dream Team of Vendors
From your celebrant to your photographer and florist, your vendors will play a huge role in making your day unforgettable. Start researching early and look for vendors who align with your vision and style. When choosing vendors:
Read reviews and testimonials.
Ask for recommendations from friends or other couples.
Book a meeting to ensure you feel comfortable with them.
Don’t forget to prioritize booking your celebrant—someone who truly gets your story and can craft a ceremony that reflects your love.
4. Think About Your Guest List
Deciding who to invite to your wedding can be one of the trickiest parts of planning. Your guest list affects your budget, venue size, and overall vibe. When creating your list:
Start with immediate family and close friends, then expand as needed.
Consider whether you want an intimate gathering or a large celebration.
Remember that each guest adds to your costs (catering, seating, favors, etc.).
Keeping your guest list manageable will help you focus on creating a more personal and meaningful celebration.
5. Enjoy the Process and Celebrate Your Engagement
It’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of planning, but don’t forget to enjoy your engagement! This is such a special time in your life, and it deserves to be celebrated. To make the most of it:
Take engagement photos to capture the joy of this moment.
Host an engagement party to share the excitement with loved ones.
Take time to dream together about your future and what your wedding day means to you.
Remember, the journey to your wedding day should be as beautiful and meaningful as the day itself.
Planning your wedding is a once-in-a-lifetime experience, and with a little organization and the right support, it can be an incredible adventure. If you’re recently engaged and looking for a celebrant who will bring your love story to life, I’d love to chat! Let’s create a day that’s as unique and special as your love.
Contact me at Married by Tash, and let’s make magic happen!
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